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From the past

You see someone based on your past.

You carry your past likes with you, run away from your past dislikes.

But what you really need to do is to face your past fears and know how to handle them better.

You are not going to get that 100% perfect partner, but it is in your hands to make them 100% perfect.

But, equally also reminded of what they told me, "You cannot change others, but there is one person whom you can change and that is you! Hence make yourself a better person for your next relationship."


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